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Monday, 27 July 2009

  • Cross-roads

    So here I am at a major crossroad in my life. Path 1 or 2. Path one is a great path right through the sun but it really takes you no where. Path two is a little rough and bumpy but the views are spectacular and if you make it to the end you might just find happily ever after, you might just find another path though because its very complex.

    I hide in the fear that I am doing this all wrong, am i painting a pretty picture over the ugly truth. I really in my heart love him, but is it enough? Can I overcome even my own reservations and triumph this love story or is this more of a tragedy? I try so hard really. I put everything but that last drop or two into the pot but is that the missing ingredient. I feel like I am right about this one though. How can you love someone so much and resent them for it, whose fault is it really?

    He gave up everything to save nothing, so what does it mean that you will give up nothing to save everything? What does that say about me? Does that mean that I am worthless or worth-more?

    If I could have one thing back it would be that first moment of betrayal, the simple moment of jest that turned dark and ugly. I am sorry for the things I have said. Why do we do those things. it is a truth universally acknowledged that a woman in want of love will ruin it all at the very first chance with the simplest of untruths. A white lie that has festered deep inside, I have partly owned it, but only partly. Tomorrow I will own it completely. So close to the edge I think I am going to whisper it as I jump. I didn't mean it, its quite the opposite. I don't even care about the past and what it brought but somehow that familiar banter carves its cravings into my heart. Am I like her? Do i breathe lusty hatred as my second language? Have you pushed me to feel this way. i am his only when hes at rock bottom what does that say about him and I? I think I can fix him, my problem is that I genuinely care. How do you shut it off? i never learned that, I never learned to hate him, even after what he has done to me and how he has humiliated me. Do I confront you or disappear, whose turn is it? I think in this act it is my turn to get the upper hand, only to realize we both have made the same choice. Two wrongs don't make a right, and one of us always breaks down first completing the chain of self loathing. I finally said the truth trying to cancel the debt, it is still not enough though. They know and it dangles above me.I want you forever. So i delete him today and work on th rest of our lives, I wont need closure because my story only really began with you.

Wednesday, 28 January 2009

  • :O

    Ok so I need an update lol. Tomorrow Erik turns 21! yay! We are still dating, we are alive, we kicked our room mate out and live alone now! We are all grown up working towards happily ever after. yay us! <3

Sunday, 27 July 2008

  • The thrill is gone. I find the banter hollow and empty. I don't know what I would find in the loop of our conversation. How was I drawn to that before. Why did I miss it even? It seems so desperate and forced. I wasn't tested by some forbidden fruit I was just checking in with an old friend. Their is a huge disconnect and a forced friendliness that begs of awkwardness. What I have with Erik is love, not lust, or shallow banter aimed for pleasure. Oh how silly I was and could have been to have gone down that path once upon a time. I am glad that I chose this one instead. I don't miss it or him now. I realize that.

    Ps I am amazing and so is Erik <3

Thursday, 27 March 2008

  • Shot through the heart and your to blame....you give love a bad name

    I am a wreck. I am sad and tired and pitiful. Have you ever loved someone so much it hurts. I hurt and I am tired and weary and too young to feel this way. I love Erik, but sometimes I feel trapped into this lifestyle. My mind has been wandering to the forbidden pastures of, what ifs? I love him and I do not under any circumstance want to leave him but sometimes he makes me want to scream. Like today we are talking about dishes. He had been bartering with me for two days not wanting to do them after he said he would. I never agreed to anything but magically he thinks because he rubber my back for 2 minutes that I agreed I would. I, however, thought that he was being OMG dare I SAY...NICE before bed because he thought i was mad at him. Hey I have been feeling very neglected lately so I tell him straight out. Sometimes he is a bad boyfriend, I  know it was mean and not how i should have approached the situation but beating around the bush doesn't help and he had been pushing my buttons on the way out about the dishes thing. So he says something along the lines of, its not my fault that you are so nice and do things for me all the time. *STAB *STAB He just doesn't think. See the thing is I am trapped because if I don't do said nice things he thinks that I am mad at him and gets all mopey. He takes it personally. So its like lose lose situation for me, if I don't do something for him he feels neglected and when I do things for him he thinks, AWWWW YOUR SO NICE. but the thing about him thinking im nice is...he thinks its my fault. ITS NOT MY FAULT YOUR SO NICE AND I LIKE TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF IT. *STAB *STAB It hurt so bad you have no idea. I have been feeling neglected and taken advantage of all week so here it is, proof that he does know what he is doing and still doesn't think anything is wrong with it. I just totally stabs me in the heart and makes me beyond upset. I didn't want to talk...whatever I will do the fucking dishes. So I did. But is it wrong to dare dream that my boyfriend would like to spoil me every once in a while just because he loved me and didnt want something out of the experience. If he rubs my back he expects that i will be cleaning up in the kitchen shortly, or making him a bath. He doesn't even realize the work and time it takes out of my personal time, he would never make that kind of sacrifice for me and that just KILLS ME ON THE INSIDE. I am tired of people asking well how come he doesn't take you out for nice dinners or movies. Does he ever just buy you gifts just because? NO OK HE DOESNT.

    I know he loves me ok and I love him too, I just wish he wanted to spoil me every once in a while. I wish he wasn't so cheap paying 6.50 wasn't a big deal. It makes me sad because I have no money to my name but I pay for him more often then he does and he has no problem at all with cash flow. I wish he would step up and take me out on a date. We never dated, because we were friends first. When I went out on dates before guys would gladly dish out dough and spoil me but here I have this great boyfriend that loves me but does nothing to show it and sorta takes advantage of my willingness to give more then I take. Am I a bitch? I don't know I just want to feel special and break the routine. I am too young too feel like I have been married for 40 years.

    Marriage thats another topic. I don't want to talk about. It seems everyone we know is jumping into marriage and my BF barely even wants to have sex with me. Am I wasting my time? I have been dating him for a year and half. I dunno maybe I am just jealous of everyone else. Maybe I am just pitiful. I just know I am not happy right now.

Tuesday, 25 March 2008

  • I am a failure in my own right. Scratch that a failure in any right. I am so fat right now its not even funny. I don't feel creative our beautiful or even cute. I don't feel entertaining or smart. I feel like i'm fading like a broken star into a pale existence of fallen through dreams. So your still headed down that path...I dunno I just always saw you doing something CREATIVE. Those words sting. I don't feel like the same person and i am sheltering myself behind this veil of self pity and indulgence. I'm cushioning my thighs and Ass with loads of processed and calorie rich foods. I am wallowing in an easter basket customized to do all the things that I can't..make myself feel happy. It still doesn't make me feel happy. I just feel regret and anger that I allowed myself to get this out of control. I wish i could find strength again and my spark. I feel like a book of wet matches discarded in a puddle. If someone would flip me open they would see i was just waiting for something to fix the situation for me cause I obviously can't fix it myself.

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